Wedding speeches are a beautiful tradition—a chance to share heartfelt words, funny anecdotes, and warm wishes. As a Suffolk-based wedding videographer, Gecko Films have captured countless speeches, and trust me, the best ones leave everyone laughing, crying, and everything in between (without squirming in their seats). Here are my top tips for creating wedding speeches that hit all the right notes—and look great on film!
Keep it heartfelt, not a life story. While it’s sweet to share a bit about the couple’s journey, no one needs to hear about the time the groom took his first steps or what the bride weighed at birth. Focus on the meaningful milestones that truly showcase who they are today. Your audience will thank you—and so will the couple!
Avoid embarrassing moments. Sure, we all love a bit of humor, but this is not the time to bring up exes, embarrassing drunken escapades, or anything that might cause the bride or groom to sink in their chair. Keep it classy and respectful—this is their big day, after all.
Fathers, this is your time to shine. Speak from the heart about how proud you are, how amazing your child looks, and what it means to see them so happy. These touching moments make for incredible footage in the wedding film—don’t miss the chance to create a memory they’ll treasure forever.
Grooms, don’t forget to thank everyone who made the day possible: family, friends, and yes, your hardworking suppliers (hint, hint). Share how you felt seeing your partner walking down the aisle and don’t forget to tell them how stunning they look—it’s a moment everyone loves to hear, and it looks great on film.
Who says speeches are just for the men? Brides, if you feel like saying a few words, go for it! Share your gratitude, mirror your partner’s sentiments, and let your personality shine. It’s always a joy to see both partners share their perspective on such a meaningful day.
As the best man or woman, your job is to celebrate the couple—not roast them. Some of the best speeches focus on how you feel seeing the couple together, not on the chaotic stag or hen do abroad. A heartfelt story or funny yet tasteful anecdote goes a long way.
The best speeches are short, simple, and heartfelt. Aim for five to ten minutes tops—this keeps your audience engaged and your nerves in check. If you’re nervous, consider doing your speech before the wedding breakfast—it’s a great way to get it out of the way so you can relax and enjoy the day. And trust me, avoid the temptation to do speeches between courses. It’s a logistical nightmare for your caterers and rarely goes to plan!
With these tips, your wedding speeches will be heartfelt, memorable, and (most importantly) film-worthy. At Gecko Films, I ensure every speech is captured in full, so you can relive those special words time and time again.
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